(An Earth Moving Insight)
While in the bathtub I had a major revelation: I was why my parents didn’t divorce sooner. I was the buffer between them, and all their conflicts got focussed in me. Within a year of my moving out, they seperated. I hadn’t realized how I had cemented their relationship. Without me they couldn’t deal with each other. It’s no wonder I felt so pressured at “home”. I was very unhappy.